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Please share any and all ways the lockdown has affected you and those around you emotionally, physically, mentally or situationally?

 

So much change in such short time!

 

I can see how this pandemic has changed the way businesses are run, the way people conduct themselves day to day. At first, I was bummed staying home all the time but now I am happy to do this. I am especially glad to have my family with me. I think if it were not for them my head would be spinning even more than it is now and I would struggle to keep my mental health in tact.They give me a reason to stay strong, stay healthy and continue to make the very best of the situation and they help me to be patient, positive and resourceful and enjoy basic pleasures of life.

I think

all lives matter

 

and we are all humans who need to shift our focus to using our energy to help one another.

Craig Flores

Shan’s Story

by Shan Daroczi • Oct 2 2020

Craig’s Lockdown Story

Please share any and all ways the lockdown has affected you and those around you emotionally, physically, mentally or situationally?

I’m feeling sort of stuck in the middle.  My family of 4 has been fortunate — we have reserves to draw on during this time when I’ve been partially employed.  We haven’t been directly affected by illness from the pandemic, but we keep hearing about more and more people who have been affected.  The first direct connection was a co-worker who lost a father due to the disease.  More recently a cousin who works in the medical field was infected — fortunately she did not become seriously ill.  There is a kind of looming dread that feels like more people close to us will be affected, it’s just a matter of time.  There is another type of fear about one of us, or our aging parents, getting infected.

We have adapted fairly well to sheltering-in-place.  We shop less frequently, but more thoughtfully.  One thing that surprised me was how much I miss going to the gym.  I knew I’d miss the group class exercise, but have also acutely missed the social aspects of chatting with the instructors and other regular students before and after classes.  Our family tries to get outdoor exercise by walking, jogging, or bicycling.  The cycling has been particularly enjoyable for the family.  We learned that bicycles have been in short supply since so many people have been buying them as a way to exercise outdoors.  I was happy to be able to fix up a neighbor’s old bike and pass it along to another neighbor who needed one.
We have had many challenging family discussions about what kinds of outside activities to do — should we meet friends and stay on opposite sides of the sidewalk to talk?  Should we go for a group hike or a bike ride with other households?  Should we go camping?  Should we visit the grandparents?  The teenagers are forming their own opinions and though processes, which is fantastic, but it also slows down consensus building.  Ultimately we decided to take some camping trips, because most of the time we’d be outdoors.  We decided to wait to visit one of the grandmas because that visit would be mostly indoors. Curiously she is pushing for us to visit, but we are more worried than she is about spreading potential germs.
Craig’s Lockdown Story

Has your focus shifted since the Black Lives Matter protests broke out?

The protests were a sad reminder of how much more work the US should do.  Also, a reminder of how split the US population’s attitudes are towards policing and race. I have not been to a protest before, but the recent events brought me closer to participating than I ever have before.